This was certainly never a blog post I thought I would write! Motherhood has broken me down, cracked me wide open and change me down to my core {in the best way possible of course}.

I have received so many questions about my breastfeeding journey {7.5 months and counting!} so I thought I would share the top 5 things that have helped me on this journey.

Hydration! It feels like I am always thirsty, breastfeeding requires us to stay extra hydrated. I notice a big difference in my supply when I am behind in my fluids.. My goal is 100 oz of plain water each day.
Oatmeal, if you follow me on Instagram you know how much I swear by this one! I love One Degree oatmeal because it is clean and glyphosate free. Oats help my body to produce more milk for my baby, so I try to eat oatmeal about 5 days a week.
Limit stress. This one may not seem to have anything to do with breastmilk supply, but I promise when I am stressed or overdone breastfeeding not only becomes more work but I notice a drop in my supply. I have to admit that over the last year my stress has dropped considerably. Pre-baby I would say that I felt stressed multiple times per week and now I rarely feel stressed {perhaps I should share this is in another blog soon!}. Daily meditation and walks outside help me to manage stress, tension and any thing else that pops up.
Silverettes. I swear just buy them. A girlfriend mentioned these to me when I was pregnant, and I wasn’t convinced but bought them anyways…and it was the single best purchase I made for this journey. Silverettes are made out of .925 sterling silver and you wear them inside your bra, under your nursing pads to help heal and protect your nipples. They have made my breastfeeding journey a much more enjoyable experience!
Listen to your body. This is probably the biggest thing that has worked for me. It can be tough to tune out the noise and suggestions from everyone else, but do your best, tune into your body and your baby and allow your intuition to guide you. Breastfeeding is one of the hardest things I have ever learned to do {yes learned, it’s not always innate} but it is hands down the most rewarding. Before each feeding session take a few deep breathes, let your day melt away, put away distractions, and allow this to purely be about connecting with your babe.

These are 5 things that have truly helped me on this journey and made breastfeeding an enjoyable experience! That being said I do not know how long I will breastfeed for. I have chosen not to put any limits or expectations on myself, and have done my best to tune out the thoughts and opinions of others in regard to this. I plan on breastfeeding for as long as feels right for me and for my son, and that’s it. I trust that we will know when it is time to stop.

Lastly, I understand how blessed I am to have a good supply {correction a great supply} and be able to feed my son as long as I have. It is not easy, and I know many Mamas who have not been able to breastfeed this long - or at all. There should never be any shame towards parents for how they choose to feed and nourish their children. I am simply sharing my authentic experience and the tools that have worked for me.

I would love to hear your breastfeeding stories and what has worked for you!

Please comment below and LMK!

{written a few days after Hurricane Ian rocked our Southwest Florida community}

Tonight as I fed my son and put him to sleep tears streamed down my face.

Uncontrolled.

I could no longer contain all the emotions that have been inside of me the past few weeks.

Utter overwhelm.

The emotions of the last two weeks prepping for the hurricane, riding out the hurricane with no contact to the outside world, and then dealing with the mass destruction to our city. Witnessing everything that was lost and the destruction really hit me.

Perhaps it’s because I’m a Mother now, or maybe it’s because I know so many parents who literally had to swim out of their homes with their children, or perhaps it’s because I’m an empath and I feel so deeply. Whatever it is, I could no longer hold back the emotions.

I was strong during the hurricane, making sure Bodhi’s days went on as normal as possible and aware of my energy so as not to transfer it onto him. In the days since the hurricane Bodhi, Ricky and I have collected thousands of dollars in monetary donations (which we have distributed as gift cards), baby items, pet items and other essentials and have driven across Southwest Florida directly distributing them directly to families in need.

This work has been incredible, extremely soul filling and is something I am proud to have Bodhi be apart of.

However, witnessing the devastation first hand has been traumatic.

But we will continue.

People need help, and if we can help in some small way and make their day or week a little brighter than its worth it.

The tears continued to stream down my face.

I snuggled my son a little bit tighter. Breathing in his sweet infant smell, resting my cheek onto his, and feeling our breaths sync together rhythmically almost becoming one.

I held onto this moment a bit longer tonight, pausing, and simply understanding that this moment right here is all that matters.

Material objects can be replaced, homes can be rebuilt, and I recognize that I can’t control anything out there; but right here in this perfect moment snuggling my son’s warm body into mine is all I need.